目录
FOREWORD
时序节日篇
过年.........................3
二十三送灶神.................7
扫房子......................11
打醋炭......................14
贴福字......................17
贴年田......................20
贴门神......................24
贴春联......................27
除夕........................31
压岁钱......................34
守岁........................37
接神........................39
开门鞭炮....................42
拜年........................44
大年初二迎婿日..............48
出行........................51
立春日鞭春牛................53
戴春鸡......................56
咬春........................59
闹元宵......................62
补天节......................66
填仓节......................68
惊蛰........................71
二月二龙抬头................74
剃龙头吃龙鳞................76
三月三去踏青................79
清明节......................83
四月八......................88
端午节......................91
门上插柳....................94
刁香囊濯秀发................96
六月六.....................100
七夕乞巧...................104
七月十五...................108
中秋节.....................112
中秋拜月...................114
中秋夜玩花灯...............117
九九重阳...................119
重阳登高...................121
十月初一送寒衣.............124
冬至.......................126
腊八.......................129
裕固族节庆.................131
回族节庆...................135
谈婚论嫁篇
相亲.......................141
看家.......................145
过礼订亲...................147
择吉.......................149
贴双喜.....................152
哭嫁.......................153
迎娶.......................157
拜堂.......................162
交杯酒.....................165
入洞房.....................167
喜宴.......................170
禳房.......................172
铺床.......................176
回门.......................179
度蜜月.....................181
回娘家.....................184
结婚礼仪...................187
千里姻缘一线牵.............188
入赘.......................190
童养媳与换门亲.............193
裕固族婚俗.................195
回族婚俗...................198
生儿育女篇
求子.......................205
有喜.......................207
接生.......................209
坐月子.....................211
乞奶起名...................214
洗三.......................216
满月.......................221
过百日.....................224
抓周.......................226
长命锁.....................228
求保赎身...................233
成年礼.....................234
认干亲.....................236
回族生育俗.................239
丧葬祭祀篇
探病.......................245
送终.......................246
寿终正寝...................248
倒头纸.....................250
举哀.......................253
报丧.......................258
写主牌.....................260
引魂幡.....................262
入殓.......................265
盖棺.......................269
祭灵.......................271
辞灵.......................274
送盘缠.....................276
选吉穴.....................279
出殡.......................280
下葬.......................284
跨火盆.....................286
谢丧复三...................288
祭七.......................290
献花圈.....................294
立碑.......................297
烧纸钱.....................300
祭祖.......................302
迁葬.......................304
裕固族葬俗.................307
回族葬俗...................309
日常礼仪篇
拱手礼.....................315
饭桌礼仪...................317
先干为敬...................323
酒俗.......................325
过寿.......................330
隆木.......................335
盖房.......................339
温锅乔迁...................342
喜鹊报喜...................344
放风筝.....................346
三十而立...................349
七十不留宿.................353
裕固族礼仪.................355
回族礼仪...................357
节日食俗篇
年夜饭.....................363
大年三十装仓面.............365
正月初一包饺子.............366
开年饭.....................369
年茶与年饭.................371
正月初七拉魂面.............374
正月十五面老鼠和面灯.......376
二月二摊煎饼...............378
二月二猪头肉...............379
惊蛰油炸鸡蛋捎油子.........381
清明芽面包子...............382
端午节吃米糕...............383
八月十五烙锅盔.............385
九月初九重阳糕.............387
十月初一麻腐包子...........389
冬至节杏壳喽...............391
腊八粥.....................392
灶干粮.....................395
出门饺子回家面.............397
冬至饺子夏至面.............399
裕固族食俗.................401
回族节日食俗...............403
禳灾祈福篇
本命年挂红.................409
百家衣.....................411
择日.......................413
冲喜.......................415
叫魂.......................417
驱邪治病...................421
立柱上梁...................424
谢土.......................429
庙会.......................431
活地脉.....................435
求雨.......................438
生活禁忌篇
抬头三尺有神灵.............443
太岁头上不动土.............445
除夕忌空锅.................447
初一忌吃稀.................448
大年初一禁忌...............450
鬼节禁忌...................452
忌门.......................454
前不栽桑后不栽柳...........456
裕固族禁忌.................458
回族禁忌...................460
游戏竞技篇荡秋千...........465
狼吃娃娃...................468
老鹰捉小鸡.................470
滚铁环.....................472
赶老牛.....................475
拔腰蹬棍...................478
打沙包.....................480
斗鸡.......................482
跳房子.....................484
划拳.......................486
跳绳.......................491
踢毽子.....................493
过家家.....................497
童趣游戏...................499
踩高跷.....................507
裕固族传统游戏.............510
回族传统游戏...............514